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May 30, 2004

mind games

What is it with girls that you know are attracted to you always asking, "So how's your girlfriend doing?"

The question sometimes boggles the mind, but I have come up with some possible reasons:

  1. Just to fuck with your head.
  2. An attempt to disarm any "tension" by appearing to not be attracted to you.
  3. Throw it in your face that you could be getting down and dirty with them, instead of being with some other bitch.
  4. In hopes of letting you know, that THEY know you have a girlfriend, and although they're attracted to you they ain't messing around with that, so don't go getting any horner woman ideas.
  5. They are in fact, not attracted to you, get over yourself.

Ladies, fill us in, why do you do it? What are your nefarious motives...?

Update: #6, courtesy Andrew & Gheorghe: To find out if you're still WITH your girlfriend... or back on the market... sneaky ;)

Justin | 4:23 AM
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Comments: mind games

Well I was. *pbbt*

Posted by: Jadie at June 2, 2004 2:31 PM

to find out if yuh still wit him =D

Posted by: j at June 2, 2004 1:59 AM

well, why do dudes ask me how my man is going??????

FELLAS??????

Posted by: vee at June 2, 2004 1:55 AM

mm tsk.

Posted by: Trace at June 2, 2004 12:33 AM

more propaganda from the female coalition... ;)

Posted by: j at June 1, 2004 11:30 PM

Actually each girl will have her own motive behind it. Like everything else, it's situational. But I love your # 3

Posted by: Cookie at June 1, 2004 9:58 PM

lol number 6 is interesting.

(ooh yeah i was supposed to be in hiding)

Posted by: stacey at June 1, 2004 3:19 PM

Cookies?

Wrong blog....

Posted by: Bunnyhead at June 1, 2004 4:01 AM

The only honest one amongst you is Stacey, SHAME on the rest of you (heheheh!), PROPS to Stace, yay ;) I fear her life is now in danger.

AND I WAS NOT REFERRING SPECIFICALLY TO MYSELF JADE =P *grumble*

Posted by: j at June 1, 2004 12:39 AM

Well we gotta ask; it's not like she ever posts ANYTHING anymore. [Points to Michy's blog.]

Arhem.

Posted by: Jadie at May 31, 2004 6:37 PM

everyone is a hoe

Posted by: mq at May 31, 2004 10:54 AM

tuh find out how the fuck the gf is doing...bitch.
perhaps indeed they know you taken and it doesn't make sense so it still is a genuine question so yeh get over yourself.

Posted by: Trace at May 31, 2004 1:03 AM

mostly just to see you squirm ;-)

Posted by: stacey at May 30, 2004 9:49 PM

Bullshit!
just they're just testing the waters.
They like you, and they know that you have a girlfriend and know they have power.
So what they really mean is "are you happy?"
; )

Posted by: A at May 30, 2004 2:04 PM

we want to know how your girlfriend is doing.

Posted by: vee at May 30, 2004 11:28 AM
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